..all those songs




There are some music that melts all through your life and recaps an age you did something incredible, sometimes a sad memory and sometimes a beautiful recollection about someone you loved. I had different tastes for different episodes of my life but some acquired tastes sustained and I found beauty in it in every stage of my life, music sometimes brought ‘the old me’ and sometimes gave birth to a ‘new me’, but it was beautiful to get lost in a world that’s hard to define in words.

‘Dil hum hum kare khabraye’ that’s my oldest memory of music, I undoubtedly remember my Acha singing it while he was having a trim, when he came back home after work sipping tea and walking through the main house backyard to have a chat with Ambyamma and as a kid I used to memorise it without even knowing the meaning, sometimes I invented my own lyrics that made absolutely no sense and sang with at most glee. Even today when I’m home first thing in the morning my Dad would demand is Rudali music. Every man jack in my Acha’s family for sure has some pre historic link with Hindi songs and of course ‘ dil hum hum’ is the most sang and most rated song.

Lalchand chetan being my favourite cousin made my childhood exceptional with his amazing humour sense and bike trips. I remember everything Lalchand cheta, everything! When I look at your daughter today I remember our rock performances in ‘your room’ of our ‘haunted house’ (that’s a long story). Amma often tells me how I used to laugh at your jokes, in fact you were the only joy we had that time. Do you remember our anxious waiting for ‘chewing gums’ from Bombay? Haha..Do you remember our ‘manja kunnji kalulla chakki poochaku’? I sang it all day sitting on his bamboo chair among piles of cassettes and magazines and pictures he collected and sang in my high pitch voice when he took me on night rides when there was no power.

‘Brown girl in the ring la la lalala’ lifted me up when I was down and that was one among the first English songs I listened, of course from my Acha’s collections. He still has those songs. Can you believe it? I remember pinning my ears to Boney M before my first stage performance. I have a faint memory of me and Appu chetan arguing about his ‘I’m a Barbie girl’ school performance and my love for ‘Brown girl in the ring’. I boasted about listening to Boney M during my later childhood to my ‘modern friends’ who discovered ‘listening to only Malayalam songs’ as extremely stupid and back then was senseless enough to strain my best to impress them.

Omanakuttan maman, my driver maman knows this song really well, he had remarkable tolerance to listen to ‘ jab se tera naina’ all through our journeys, I simply loved that song and played it when I got into the car and it stopped when I got out of it. He would ask even today ‘’ you still have your red colour CD? ”.  Beena used to get extremely annoyed when she saw ‘my red colour CD’. What fascinated me? I still don’t know.

‘ Aap ka khat mila’, one day I heard this song when it was played on TV and I was busy ironing my school uniform, I tried recollecting the song after few days when I was lost in my senseless thoughts. Have you had this feeling when you can’t recollect something you recognise really well? Argh! I just hate it. I couldn’t recollect head or tail of the lyrics, all I could remember was the tune, and it annoyed me greatly. I discovered it among the piles of CDs I refused to play after few years from the car drawer. When I listen to the song, for some strange reason I like to think there’s someone out there who’ll write me plenty of letters. Okay. That was ‘I’ being romantic. Never mind. I shall sing it in my high pitch voice if he happen to magically appear in front of me.

‘Baby doll’, that’s one hell of a memory . That’s something not revel-able! Plastic covers, dance steps, videography and loud laughs. (I’m supposed to write the censored version of my true self because of some crooked populaces.) -Ill-disciplined days of my youth and I bet ages cannot wither it. Music was the only escape during exam spells but ‘ ae dil hai mushkil jeena yahan’ splashed into our brains when we couldn’t find solutions to our questions on the exam paper, that was something mystic about this song! Anyways I’m glad it irritated all my friends and I’m sure they’ll all remember Arundhathy for ‘ae dil hai mushkil jeena yahan’

‘ Paarvana paalmazha’, this song has something to do with my unconscious self I try to supress every time, not that I have a supernatural friend. The movie captured my attention when I was a little kid, it’s not an impressive one for kids but I discovered it fascinating. I remember my ‘imaginative plays’ as a child with Appu chetan, sometimes scaring him to the core acting like an evil spirit. The movie gave me a beautiful imagination of pranayam (like how Tatteppa calls it). It captured my idea of love perfectly, I totally fell for Janakikutty and her dairy milk covers! It’s beautiful –sigh-.

‘ Ni sa ga ma pa..janam janam’, how magical is Yesudas’s voice? How can I ever be a Malayali without a favourite Yesudas song? I discovered the song lately and fell in love immediately. There are no words to describe the feeling you get, lying on your bed with ear earphones plugged in, silence all around you and there is a magical voice flowing from somewhere, somewhere afar…


- for all those memorable cassettes